I found a card for flowers from my now deceased boyfriend Kevin. It was used as a bookmark in Jesus, Entrepreneur, which grabbed my attention from a shelf yesterday. I even moved the card as I read a couple chapters, but I was looking at the blank side. Today, I turned it, not knowing I’d see:
Hey Ice Baby,
I hope these are half as beautiful as you are.
Wish I was there to deliver them in person.
The card came with the first flowers Kevin gave me. A dozen red roses, so classic I would’ve considered it cliché from anyone else. There’s no date. It doesn’t matter. Time took on a different tone with Kevin.
It’s all surreal now. In our chapter together, we experienced the love that clicked after all those years struggling in other relationships.
Back then, watching other couples, it seemed so easy, right and smooth. They assured me they worked hard on their relationships and I tried harder in ones that wouldn’t fulfill.
It wasn’t until I was with Kevin that what I suspected was proven true.
When you’re with the right person, everything is easier.
I knew it! Being with that special someone that fits you like your favorite pair of jeans makes even the tough times more comfortable.
See, I’ve had a lot of men and I’ve been given a lot of flowers, but none as striking as the ones Kevin gave me.
My sister and I marveled about their strong, sweet aroma. Those roses blossomed to the size of my fist and stayed fresh for weeks.
That particular bouquet came from Pro Flowers, but all the flowers Kevin gave me, even from the grocery store, carried more scent, lasted longer, and captured extraordinary beauty—like true representatives of his love.
The guy was something—not just to me. To his numerous friends and family, Kevin acted as an example of living full, giving freely and saying it all. He didn’t hold back.
We came together in divine timing after knowing each other for decades. He was my treasure after all the digging I’d done.
Our relationship felt like home for both of us. We wanted to live there.
Unfortunately, unexpectedly, he died—in his sleep. Had Kevin been awake, he would’ve tried to fight death off. Now, he’s gone.
So, I’m moving forward, with him by my side from the other side. In life, he gave me flowers. Now, it’s hearts in clouds.
And occasionally, I find flower cards as bookmarks. I let myself smile and feel how delighted I felt the day I received those roses, as happy he wants me to be now.